I have a two-year old daughter whom I love with my whole heart. At this age, she is learning and growing so fast, especially in her speech.
Lately, every day she looks up at me and says, “Can I hold you?”
That’s her way of asking me to pick her up. Last night I was holding her, and she asked me, “Can I hold mommy?”
When we pick her up, she holds on tight. I’m not sure if she’s just mixing up her words, and really means to say, “Can you hold me?”, or if she really thinks of it as her holding us when we pick her up. Certainly she is holding on, but at the end of the day, our grip on her is much stronger than her grip on us.
I can’t help but think of this in regard to a believer’s relationship with God.
We are told by the writer of Hebrews that we are to “hold fast” to the gospel (Hebrews 3:14, 4:14, 10:23). We should love Him, seek Him, and cling to Him.
But here’s the good news: if and when you fail to do so, if and when you feel weak, confused and exhausted to the point where you are struggling to hold onto Him – He will still be holding on to you.
My daughter thinks she is holding onto me. But the truth is: I’m holding onto her much more firmly than she’s holding onto me, and I’m much stronger than she is.
2 Timothy 2:13, most likely quoting from an early Christian creed or song, says: if we are faithless, he remains faithful—for he cannot deny himself.
At the church where I served my first few years in Hungary, the pastor would read this passage at the end of every service:
Now unto him who is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
To the only wise God our Savior, be glory and majesty, dominion and power, both now and ever. Amen. (Jude 24-25)
Find security in knowing this today: If you are His child, then as much as you might be clinging to Him (and you should be), He is clinging to you much more tightly, and He is infinitely stronger!
2 thoughts on “Who’s Holding Whom?”
Such a wonderful reminder. We are not alone. He will never leave us, nor forsake us.
I agree with Beth. Thank you Nick for this thoughtful Note. Blessings..