Teaching Your Kids the Truth about Saint Nicholas

This week we took our kids to see Santa at Flatirons Crossing in Broomfield.

Santa, AKA “the Great Red Satan”

I don’t know if you’ve met them or not, but there are some Christians who think that Santa is evil, and that he takes away from the true meaning of Christmas. Not to mention, some would point out, that Santa is nothing more than a misspelling of SATAN, which must be why he goes around in those obnoxious red clothes: because he is from HELL and wants to take you and your kids back there with him!
This of course, is based on a sad lack of knowledge regarding the origin of Santa Claus – the name (in English) being simply a direct derivative of “Saint Nicholas”.

For this reason, many Christians protest anything to do with Santa Claus, and tell their kids that Santa is not real, he is bad, and he takes away from the true meaning of Christmas, which of course is Jesus.

This Christmas season, as we do every year, we told our kids the story of the real Saint Nicholas – who was not a mythical fat man in red clothes who rode through the skies on a sleigh pulled by flying reindeer, but a devout Christian man, a pastor, who was persecuted for his faith, and gained fame because of his generosity to the poor and needy.

We don’t avoid Santa Claus – we don’t even want to. We see it as a great opportunity to teach our kids about a great Christian man who loved Jesus and was generous and kind because of the love of God which was in his heart. THAT is the “Christmas spirit”.
We tell our kids that there are many people in the world who want to follow the example of Saint Nicholas, and that is why they will meet a Santa at their school and at the mall – and some of them will have very fake beards, because none of them are the real Saint Nick.

We also teach our kids that, as Christians, we want to be like Saint Nicholas too, and we are going to be generous to the poor and needy too because God loved us so much that he gave us his Son, Jesus, so that we could have eternal life and have a relationship with God.

The Story of the Real Saint Nicholas

The real Saint Nicholas was born in the 3rd century in the village of Patara, in what is now southern Turkey, into a wealthy family. That’s right – no North Pole and reindeer for the real Santa, but palm trees and white sand beaches. His parents died when he was young, and he was taken in and raised by a local priest. Following Jesus’ call to the Rich Young Ruler to “sell what you own and give the money to the poor”, Nicholas dedicated to use his entire inheritance to assist the sick, needy and suffering.
He became a pastor, and was later made Bishop of Myra. He became famous for his generosity and love for children.

Nicholas suffered persecution and imprisonment for his Christians faith during the Great Persecution (303-311) under Roman emperor Diocletian.
He attended the Council of Nicaea (325), at which he affirmed the doctrine of the deity of Christ.
Nicholas died in 343 in Myra. The anniversary of his death became a day of celebration, the Feast of St. Nicholas, December 6th.

Take back the true story of St. Nicholas

Many stories are told about St. Nicholas’ life and deeds. Perhaps the most famous story is one of a poor man who had three daughters who were of marrying age. Because the man was poor, he was unable to provide a dowry for his daughters, which meant that they would not be able to find a descent husband, and would either be married into further poverty or would have to become slaves. After Nicholas found out about this family’s situation, he visited the family’s house, leaving them 3 anonymous gifts – each time a bag of gold, which was tossed through an open window while the family was sleeping. Legend has it that the gold fell into their shoes, the reason for the tradition in Europe that St. Nicholas leaves gifts in children’s shoes. Nicholas provided for these poor girls to help them break out of the cycle of poverty.

My favorite story about Nicholas is what he did at the the Council of Nicaea, where bishops from all over the world gathered to study the scriptures and address the major doctrinal controversies facing the church. Chief among these was Arianism, propagated by Arius, which denied the full deity of Jesus Christ, saying that he was a created being. The debate got very heated, as this was considered heresy. Nicholas got so upset with Arius, that he punched him out during the council. Now that’s my kinda Santa!

Rather than teaching your kids the common myth about Santa Claus, and rather than trying to make Christmas Santa-free, take back the true story of Saint Nicholas and take hold of this opportunity to talk about a Christian man who loved Jesus and who exemplified the true Spirit of Christ and Christmas through compassion and generosity.

9 thoughts on “Teaching Your Kids the Truth about Saint Nicholas

  1. Exactly. He loved Jesus, not cookies… Well he probably liked cookies, I am actually just assuming. He definitely liked baklava though.

  2. For years we have celebrated St. Nicholas day. We tell them about the real St. Nick; what he did and how we can learn from him. We have never pretended to follow the modern Santa traditions or fairy tales. We save our make believing for the tooth fairy so our religion and fairy tales aren’t combined.

    1. Not mixing religion with fairy tales is so important to us too. I think that happens in children’s ministry easily and often. I also stopped reading to our kids out of children’s Bibles to help make a distinction for them between God’s Word and fictional children’s stories.

  3. I grew up in a church that taught us about Satan Claus… A friend of mine tells her kids about Saint Nicholas and explains everything, but her kids have still asked if Santa Claus is real (referring to the guy who works with elves). Her response is Saint Nicholas was a real person and Santa Claus is as real as a superhero.

  4. 1. I am surprised that Nate is not telling you the story of Szent Miklós.
    2, I have heard some claim that it gives children an imagination to believe in fairy tales, but we know that is not true.
    3. Some people do not like baklava because of allergies or a distaste of overly sweet desserts.
    4. What is a direct derivative? Can you give me an example of an indirect derivative? You can tell me in person.

    1. To your #2: Check out the previous comments: Someone else commented about that same thing. The point of doing this is partly to help children understand the difference between fairy tales and reality.

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